Product Rating: ♥♥♥♥♥ (5/5) works almost instantly… for ages 2-12 (but I take it too and I am in my mid 30’s)
I think Wednesdays in my house are officially now called Sicky Wednesday instead of Hump Day. This is now the third week in a row we have been sick. First started with the little guy getting the nasty stomach bug. Then last week I had the stomach bug, hence the week of no blogs. Today started off fabulous. We went outside and played for a few hours, delivered some baby things to a friend, went grocery shopping, played outside a little more before coming in for lunch and what was supposed to be nap time.
He spent a good hour puking everywhere and taking 2 showers. He finally stopped vomiting after the second dose of Emetrol. Our first experience with Emetrol was a couple of months ago when he was vomiting uncontrollably the nurse in the ER gave him this to help settle his stomach and it worked almost instantly. After that I added it to our medicine cabinet. When the stomach bug hit us last week I broke down and took 2 teaspoons every time I started to feel nauseous and it worked wonders.
It has been a long afternoon and you guessed it, no nap for the little guy today. It might turn into a very long night.
I came across the 40 Bags in 40 Days Challenge in a post a friend had posted on facebook. I have a tendency to hold on to things I don’t really need. I moved once with a 16 foot truck of STUFF.
16 foot moving truck for 1 person.
I don’t want to do that again. I am on my journey to reduce and de-clutter. With a toddler it makes the chore a little more difficult because I want to keep everything of his. To help in my venture to de-clutter I have signed up to be a seller at Too Cute To Toss event on April 5th and 6th to sell as much of my son’s clothes and “stuff” as I can. I can’t wait to see how I do after 40 days.
The “official” 40 bags in 40 days started on March 5th and ends on Easter Saturday. So if anyone asks me “what did you give up for lent?” don’t be surprised if you get the answer “stuff” because for me not holding on to something that may have one day had value or a memory attached is a HUGE step for me. The plus side to all this… My fiancée will be very happy to se so much stuff going out the door and not coming back in. 🙂
Wish me luck on my journey. I will try to post different areas along my 40 day journey.
Day 1 – My craft area (might take 2 days) – It needs desperate help…
Today’s letter comes from Ron. It is nice to see a dad writing in.
My wife is breastfeeding our first born and I feel left out. Not just from the baby’s life but from my wife’s life as well. Is there anything I can do to be more involved or feel more involved?
Thank you for your question. There are a few ways to feel more involved. I would nurse everywhere in the house. Sometimes my fiancee would be sitting next to me and we would hang out. When my milk supply started to drop he helped by helping me relax. He helped massage my breasts gently. It wasn’t a sexual thing but it helped him still have contact and helped my milk let down. I would also pump a lot of milk and he would give our son bottles from time to time. There were times I would be nursing in bed and he would gently massage our sons head. It was tender and sweet. I am amazed at how much just those little things meant to me. One of the nicest things he would do was get our son if he was crying and bring him to me. It was something small but sometimes those little actions mean more than flowers or gifts.
As for the sexual aspect. I always laughed and said I didn’t understand why parents have less sex. Why should having a baby hinder sex. WOW, was I in for a shock. LOL It is amazing how priorities shift and being intimate shifts to cuddle time and relaxing together. We are both so tired at the end of the night during the week that we pass out before our sex drives kick in. I will give you some hope, intimate time gets much easier once the baby sleeps through the night.
Thank you Cinema Salem, Salem Ma, for having The Lego Movie as the Baby and Me show this week.
Movie Rating ♥♥♥♥♥ (5/5) Movie Trailer Posted below.
The Lego Movie was better than I was expecting it to be. My toddler was too busy running and flirting with the other 2 toddler girls that were there. I was impressed with how the story keeps moving and I didn’t get bored. I like how President Lincoln has a cameo, it was fun. The main song “everything is awesome” is so catchy. It is a feel good movie great for kids of all ages. The ending was a complete surprise. I wasn’t expecting such a great ending.
I absolutely LOVED this movie and it is on my MUST BUY as soon as it is released!!
** Because of the holiday week there might not be a Baby and Me show. If that is the case I will review a Red Box Film.
Cross-post from MoMWoW.org
I was contacted by Shoele of the Working Mama Project. She has read my personal blog about breastfeeding and has shared with me her wonderful project.
I see that you write a lot about breastfeeding and think that this project might be an interesting topic for you. I have made photo project called Working Mama with focus on the beauty and nature of breastfeeding. I hope that you would like to support my project.http://igg.me/at/workingmama/
She is putting together a coffee table book with photos of Mother’s breastfeeding. I admire what she is doing as to me it seems so beautiful to see a mother breastfeeding her baby. In other countries Breastfeeding isn’t shameful like it is made to feel here in the US. I will admit I was a mom who was proud to breastfeed in public. For the most part I used a cover but when the little guy grew so he didn’t like them I nursed without one. I am excited to see Shoele’s dream of having a coffee table book come true. Check out her video and her crowd-funding page. Even if you don’t give, it is interesting to share in her dream. I look forward to the release of her book.
On a personal note: I often look at breastfeeding mamas with such awe and I smile at them. When my supply started to drop seeing a mama breastfeed with ease would make me sad because I wished breastfeeding was an easy venture for me. Oh but was it ever hard yet so rewarding and special. Words can’t describe the love I have for breastfeeding. I know many moms who wanted to breastfeed but couldn’t for one reason or another. I also know moms who never had the wish to breastfeed yet they all were supportive of my decision to breastfeed as long as possible.
In support of the Working Mama Project here is my favorite picture of breastfeeding my son. Our youngest cat liked to lay behind our son as he breastfed until he got too big, then she would lay at my feet or on my legs. To this day she sleeps next to his crib at night and for naps. On occasion she will sleep in our room with us.
** Please email me questions or fill out the form below and I will post a response to them.
My Favorite Breastfeeding Moment
I am a couple of weeks behind on our “2013 milestones” but, here we go. I am sure I have missed some milestones, but here are some big ones I can rattle off the top of my head.
Breastfed until 16.5 months, I would have gone longer but my body failed us. (bad boobies!!)
First “real” 2 word phrase – “bay kiki” (Bad Kitty)
First set of molars – January 2013 caused a trip to the ER and resulted in a double ear infection.
First “Big Boy” food- Spinach Feta Pie
First steps – Mid-June 2013 (17.5 mo old)
Recognize all Letters and point to them – 20 months old
First Letter learned and mastered – “E” 19 months old
Recognize numbers 1 – 20 and point to them – 20 months old
Recognize animals and point to them – 16 months old
By the end of 2013 he could say some animals, shapes, colors, about 50% of the alphabet, and numbers 1-10. He can’t do them in order yet but we are working on that.
As of January 15, 2014 when asked “How old are you going to be?” or “how old are you?” he can reply “Two” and attempts to hold up 2 fingers.
This post is spawned for an article from NBC Chef Grant Achatz starts Twitter debate: Should babies be banned from high-end restaurants? by Tracy Saelinger (TODAY contributor).
I don’t think they should ban babies, it is up to the parents to be respectful of others who are dining. If the baby should get agitated or upset and cry, take a breather and walk with the baby. At 8 mo my son was still Breastfeeding so a quick boob fix was all he would need to nod back off again or at least relax and be in mommy milk trance for a while. With that said, my almost 2-year-old doesn’t understand “inside” voice yet. Personally, I would never dream of bringing him to a 3 hour, 18 course meal that cost over $200 per plate and you have to wait for weeks or months for a table.
If you can afford a restaurant that expensive then you probably have a full-time live in nanny that the kids can stay with. Or at least a full-time nanny/babysitter you can ask to stay late and pay them an overtime bonus. Do babysitters cancel, sure they do but then be the respectful parent and walk out when your baby starts to cry. If you are like most Americans and you can’t “normally” afford the restaurant then it is a “special” date night and you should enjoy your spouse/significant other/whoever you are with without babies and children.
We have not had a date night since R was born. We did attempt it once when the little guy was 5 months old but we were called back before our dinner was served. We take him everywhere, he has even been to an Irish Pub!! Of course it was for a late lunch, but he had a good time sitting at the table like a big boy, no high chairs there. He is a good baby/toddler and on the rare occasion when he gets a little loud(or has a tantrum) I excuse myself and take him outside for a cool down walk. Most times people give the look of sympathy as I walk by with a mad toddler.
All in all, maybe not ban babies but if the parents don’t get off their asses and take the baby out of the restaurant then definitely have the waiter politely ask them to take the baby outside until it has calmed down and is no longer crying. It is the parents who need to be respectful of others.
Good Morning Blog readers!! It is Monday morning and we are ready for another yoyo week of rain, snow, rain and more snow. While mother nature has it in for us here in the wonderful state of Massachusetts with the temps bouncing between the 20’s and the 40’s we have a fun-filled week ahead. Maybe I can witness my son doing something crazy again. LOL
This past Saturday we were at the local mall play area where I usually take him to play and burn some energy. I love watching all the different children interact together. It amazes me every time we go how many adults aren’t keeping an eye on the children they are there with. They are playing with or talking on their phones. In the meantime I have a toddler running around having a good time going through the tunnels and climbing into the cars and boats. The thing that annoys me the most is when the unsupervised children are jumping off of one of the play fixtures. It isn’t the jumping part as much as where they are jumping off. They jump off over the tunnel holes. I can’t count how many times I have had to either tell those kids to be careful there were toddlers and babies crawling through the tunnel. I often wonder how much these kids get away with at home if they are so unruly and neglected in a public play area. Sometimes I want to go up to the adults and ask them if they think it is ok for the child they are not watching to potentially jump on my baby, now toddler’s head. I bite my tongue so far because when I ask the older kids to be careful they typically stop or at least look before jumping to make sure it is clear of littler kids.
The funniest thing I have seen my little guy do in the play area this weekend. There was a little boy, maybe about 5 years old, starting to have a temper tantrum. The little boy started to yell and scream with some tears because his adult told him it was time to leave. So my little guy stops in his tracks while running around, looks at the little boy and yells at him with a growl like yell. It really sounded like he was possessed by the demon in the exorcist. Then my little one ran away squealing with delight. The little boy stopped his tantrum like he was in shock, got down still sniffling, and went over to his adult to leave without a fight. I have no idea what was said in that scary yell but it was enough to help calm the tantrum. Now, if only I had a child to do that when my little guy is having a tantrum. LOL
My mind is still spinning about something that happened today. A dear friend of mine always puts other people first. She has nothing, and when I say nothing I mean her unemployment was cut off when she was owed about 7 weeks past due pay, Her husband has been out of work thanks to the holidays and his clients going on vacations, they don’t even have money for their rent. Their Christmas celebration was happy because of the generosity of others. Today I was scoping out some of the Facebook boards I am on to see if there was anything else I “needed”. I noticed my friend had some things posted for sale and then some guy she doesn’t even know and I have never seen active in the group before replies with the nastiest comment accusing her of asking for Christmas Donation gifts and then re-selling them.
ARE YOU EFF’N KIDDING ME BUDDY!!! (check out: “Christmas is a Time for Giving“)
Well, I don’t tolerate people talking crap about others and god forbid you do it about one of my friends but when you tell a blatant lie that I happen to be associated with WATCH OUT!!! I think being a full-time Mommy has kicked the Mama Bear Instinct into over drive. I set him straight on that real quick and tagged the moderators of the group in my comment so nothing could be twisted about me or my post. I must pat myself on the back because I was direct about it but I was pretty nice too.
After I had that posted up I read through some of the other comments after his on her post and I can’t believe how absolutely terrible people can be. It was like watching a bunch of middle school punks bullying another kid. I was reading these hateful words and really wondering how people could be so mean to and about someone they never met. My heart broke for my friend so I messaged her as soon as I finished my comment to let her know I had her back.
So here is a very nice woman trying to take care of her family and get money for rent the only way she can. And what do people do??? bash her and make her cry. After this she has now decided she doesn’t want to help anyone else out unless she knows them. She has taken down her posts and has decided that she won’t sell any of the items at all. Where does this leave her… Thank you to the FB bullies what messages are they teaching their kids. Are their kids as mean and nasty as they are? How can people be so cruel?
ARRG!!!!! MEAN PEOPLE SUCK!!!
Child safety is a huge issue. Our little guy is almost 2, 25 pounds, and still rear facing. I have had people tell me that “he will like it better if he was facing forward”, “I turned my child when they were one” and “why do you still have him rear facing”. The fact is he LIKES rear facing. he has always like to sit with his legs up to his chest. Why??? I have no clue, sure doesn’t look comfortable but if he likes it why change it. He hasn’t reached the height limit yet so I will keep him rear facing. He will probably be the only rear facing 3-year-old I know.
Rear facing or forward facing doesn’t really matter when it comes to the what if’s… What if you or someone who had your child is in an accident? What happens if there isn’t anyone to speak for the baby? I didn’t even think of this until I was researching rear/front facing topic. I found a program called CHAD Children Have An iDentity on the Ohio EMS page. They have a printable form that you can fill out and tape to your child’s car seat. I figure why not put it also on the stroller or in our wallets/purse/backpack. It is smart to have an edited version in the glove box too.
The CHAD form has a space for the child’s name, nickname, DOB, address, doctor, emergency contact other than the parents, special needs info, medications, allergies, and important phone numbers. Here is a picture of what you can print. Click on the picture to be linked to the Ohio EMS page that has the downloadable file.